Michael I know it has been over a month since the passing of you husband, and I regret to have just only found out. My sincerest condolesces. Jose was the strongest man I knew and could be the weakest, but I always looked up to his confidence, strength, amazing wit, beauty, sense of humor, individuality, and compassion. He is the man who made come out of my shell and helped me to learn to accept myself and who I am. I am so happy that he found the kind of love he always searched for in you. He was so happy and in love. Thank you. This website is beautiful, and I only hope to meet with you one day share thoughts and memories. Alfredo Flores, Phx, AZ.