From a friend of mine,Jamie Lind: I was watching a WWII documentary the other day and they were interviewing the cutest lil' old lady. She was talking about when she was 19, her love of two years enlisted in the German navy for the war, and he never made it home. She took out a picture of the 19 year old man, over 70 years later, she still has pictures of him. She said that losing him still hurts, and that it makes her happier knowing that she atleast got to contribute to his happiness for the two years she knew him, and she knew he really lived for those two years. But can you believe that, she still feels the same way about her love as she did then. She said that feeling the same way about him as she did back then and the fact that it still hurts, is just proof of how much they loved each other, and how real their love was. She can still feel it. This reminded me about you and how you say that people sometimes may want you to move on or not talk about it. I think you should embrace and remember the love you and your special one shared, because the love that this woman and you talk about seems to not come around all the time, but you got to experience it, so remember it. Talk about it. That way we can have a glimpse of a love we are all looking for."